Saturday, April 16, 2011

Rejection

I suppose that if you practice long enough, you will have this experience. My appointment scheduler came to tell me that one of my patients -- a 2 month old was switching providers. I may have lost patients before, but been blissfully unaware. This time, I knew. Strangely enough, just a week before I had answered a phone call from her mother, weeping on the phone that the baby was not doing well. I lost no time getting in touch with a specialist to weigh in on the problem and called her right back. I thought we had things settled. Apparently not. While I do not resent this mother wanting to take her baby to another doctor elsewhere, it does leave me wonder what I did wrong. I cannot think of anything (that's scary too, no?). Well, I hope the mother and baby do well, and receive the care they merit. I will miss not seeing little one grow up in my practice.

2 comments:

Jie Hua said...

If you're worried about what you could have done wrong, at least no one left your office cussing and screaming about your ethics.

It's happened. Be glad you're not that doctor that makes a whole family hate doctors.

thuc huynh, md said...

i had a similar experience recently. there was a child i had been taking care of for a year in the clinic and then i didnt see him again. i figured maybe he was just healthy and didnt need me anymore. now, i'm doing my outpatient pediatrics rotation and just happened to see him with my attending. ouch.